I’m going to close two lessons in this one blogpost. Last
year (between January and April 2013) I did two lessons entitled “The AMCC” and
“What Breaks The Heart of God.” I will respond to those who commented on some
of those lessons which were actually attempting to attack me as being
judgmental (especially The AMCC – Part 3: The Ostrich Syndrome) and add some closing
remarks as to how the AMCC mentality breaks the heart of God.
For the benefit of those who don’t know what the AMCC stands
for (which is an acronym I coined by the way) it stands for the American Middle Class
Church. What makes this
up? You see, in life, there are three classes of people and their economic
state. You have the rich, the middle-class and the poor. I work in a system
where the majority (if not all) would be classified as middle-class. There’s
nothing wrong with that. Because of the pressures of the economy, what you find
is that attitudes are based on what the economy is doing and not based on the
word of God. In short: the middle-class in the workplace is simply, “what’s in
it for me? And if it doesn’t involve me, my family, and clique, you will have
to fend for yourself.” Now here’s the tragedy: we carry that same mentality over
into the church world. If you have wealth, you’re frowned upon, and if you’re
poor, you’re frowned upon as well. In the church world, you have many churches
that you would probably call a middle class church. But because most of our
demeanor has been protecting me, my family and my clique, that mentality
carries over and we use that same principle when it comes to prayer, and if
someone is in need. If you’re outside the circle, you’ll get help, but also be
snickered behind your back (or they’ll internally gloat knowing that you need
them). Heaven forbid someone outside a person’s circle is thinking about ending
their life. The simple words “get over it” would be used. If they’re part of
the clique, they’ll be showered with prayer and anything else that would show
favoritism. If you speak out of this mentality or the schisms within the church
that even look like this mentality, you’ll be called out as being cynical. Most
people who cry “you are being cynical” are simply immune to it and are
comfortable in this mentality. In this mentality, it’s real easy to become
complacent and have your head stuck in the sand. It’s easy to identify someone
in this church – example: you may have some that want to help others outside
their AMCC wall (and that’s a good thing), but because they may feel trapped in
the wall, they remain there and end up losing effectiveness because they don’t
go down to their level. They’ll stay within those walls, and talk down to you
when you don’t measure up to them. That’s not getting a full picture of where
others outside your AMCC circle are.
Now, when I did the Ostrich Syndrome lesson, a comment was
raised saying that I was being harsh with our church and was saying if he were
to talk about the black church, that he was being prejudice (or something to
that extent). Well, here’s my take on his response: yes, I am black but my
blackness is not who I am. But yet and still, if it was a black church acting
with an AMCC mentality, I would call it out as well (in fact, we’re worse when
it comes to acting with that mentality to the point where we will sell each
other out for $2 and a biscuit). The color of a church doesn’t matter to me.
This is all about a mindset. When we’re selfish, we’re acting no different than
the world. I believe many people have just gotten complacent in their
comfortable seat in the pew (and their position in the church) and a lesson
like the one we heard in church (and me agreeing with the lesson) just offended
their personal beliefs. It’s as simple as that. So, because they were offended,
they just took it out on me and not seeking the Lord to see if there is any
validity to what I’m saying.
So, how does the AMCC mentality break the heart of God?
Simply, we play favorites, we focus on people that are either of the same
church, denomination, economic class, and not embracing everybody. When we
excuse the sins of those in our circle and curse the sins of those outside the
circle (whether it be denominational circle, clique, church circle, etc.), that
shows we’re breaking the heart of God with our AMCC mentality. Another way the
AMCC mentality breaks the heart of God: We keep secrets within the clique and
refuse to share what’s public record to those outside the clique (example: I
don’t like you so I won’t share, but you have to kiss up and get my favor in
order for me to share what you’re supposed to know cause you’re part of the
fellowship). That’s really partiality, and discriminatory. Now don’t get me
wrong, I am just as guilty as the person sitting next to me in the pew. When we
hear truth, but we close our minds to the validity because he’s outside of the
clique; but we hear something that’s false or from an uncleansed vessel, but
because he’s part of the clique, we embrace it. That’s having an AMCC mentality
and it also breaks the heart of God.
I pray that you all were blessed by the series, I know this
not a shouting type of lesson, but we’re in the last days and it’s time to
reach a world that’s dying on our watch.
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